Courtney Gray

MA, M.Ed
Psychotherapist

sunflowers in a garden bed

Courtney’s therapeutic practice is guided by the values of authenticity, liberation, creativity, and collaboration. Courtney primarily utilizes narrative, relational, psychodynamic, and existential approaches to cultivate a warm, responsive relationship with each client that honors your pace as you explore and grow. Their practice also aims to address the power of language to shape the meaning of our past and current experiences, as well as open up new venues of agency and expression going forward. They hope to nurture your ability to seek meaning, pleasure, and connection in your life. 

Courtney brings their lived experience as a queer, non-binary, and neurodivergent person to their therapeutic work. They are passionate about acknowledging the inherently political nature of therapy in order to better foster personal and collective experiences of liberation. They welcome clients to name and grapple with the sociopolitical, environmental, and economic instability and grief in our shared culture in their therapeutic space. While holding the weight of cultural and interpersonal harms, Courtney’s therapeutic approach honors the potential for authentic desire and creative expression to be a source of transformation and healing. 

While Courtney works with a variety of folks, they specialize in supporting queer and neurodivergent clients in exploring the ways in which those identities can be intertwined and co-constitutive. In their work with queer, neurodivergent, chronically ill, and/or clients who have histories of complex trauma and grief, Courtney hopes to support clients as they identify and reconcile feelings of shame or brokenness and tend to experiences of isolation, pain, and disability with tenderness and compassion. They also encourage clients to develop authentic, self-led approaches to unique challenges that best align with the client’s values and aspirations. In this way, they treasure opportunities to assist clients’ in developing understandings of their identity, gender, sexuality, and intimate connections on their own terms. 

By deeply honoring each client’s personal goals and pace, Courtney aspires to engender and reinforce their clients’ sense of agency, autonomy, and hope for their own journey. In all therapeutic work, Courtney is passionate about attending to the presence of grief and working with clients to create personal rituals and practices of meaning-making around life’s pains and sorrows that may help alchemize suffering into a sense of purpose and connection.  

Courtney recently completed their clinical training at DePaul University. Previously, Courtney worked in education and critical media studies. 

specialties

  • gender and sexuality

  • neurodivergence

  • grief

  • complex and relational trauma

  • covid consciousness

  • chronic illness and disability

  • life transitions

  • groups

practice approaches

  • narrative therapy

  • relational

  • parts work

  • psychodynamic

  • existential

  • feminist, decolonial, & anti-oppressive

  • sex positive & kink affirming

  • non-monogamy & polyamory affirming

  • health at every size

key beliefs

  • There is still time! It is never too late to make a change.

  • You are the expert in your own well-being.

  • “Nothing in nature exists alone.” -Michael Carson

  • “To feel an emotion is to experience a moment in our own becoming.”- Ezequiel A. Di Paolo

more about me

Courtney often enjoys their free time walking or biking by the lake, tending to their community garden plot, or cozying up with their houseplants and 2 cats, Bruce and Frankie. They also love using tarot, astrology, and creative expression like collaging and journaling as self-care.

insurances accepted

Aetna PPO
BCBS PPO
BCBS Choice PPO
BCBS HMO (Only Site 475 and 489)